Just got this curious letter from a female reader who, being originally from Nigeria, has lived over half of her life abroad. She describes her rather controversial lifestyle, as, being already married, she considers marrying again - and the husband supports her decision.
When
I'm designing save-the-date cards, or doing some other wedding-related
activity, I don't feel any different from any other person planning a
wedding. Sometimes I have to remind myself that most people won't even
view my marriage as valid -- I’m polyamorous, and have already been
legally married for 11 years. The wedding I'm planning now is with my
boyfriend, and our union will probably never be legally recognized. But
the significance of our wedding is absolutely real to us.
A
few years ago, I never would have imagined I'd get married again. Since
shifting to a
