Comparing men to animals is nothing derogatory. Even men know (and
some of them proudly admit) that there are many animal-like traits in
their personality.
At some stage of the relationship you share with
your boyfriend, you will realize that he is giving you hard time through his actions and habits.
It is better to learn in advance some good techniques that can actually train him to be a well-behaved boyfriend.
Here are 8 interesting boyfriend training ideas you would love to try.
How would you react to a pet if it behaves badly? Giving silent
treatment to pets makes them anxious and concerned. The same rule
applies with men as well. Treat them with your silence if he was caught
engaged in some undesirable activity. Such a behavior will not only make
him realize his mistake, it will also teach you how to be strong and
firm while dealing with his wrong doings.
If you wish to get a task done by your boyfriend, the perfect
training tip is to bait and lure him. For instance, tell him that if he
completes this task, he can go for weekend fun with his male friends.
Needless to say, it is a tried and tested way of training pets like
dogs. He will become habitual of expecting a good offer from your side, whenever there is a task to be completed.
- Stop the Fun in the Middle
Men
love to be engaged in playful activities with their women. You can use this fact as a weapon to train him as per your desires.
Start acting naughty with him and take the fun to the extreme level. As soon as you find him extremely excited, stop the
fun in the middle and ask him to complete a task first. He won’t mind and will take no time to follow your orders and get the fun resumed.
- Appreciate His Good Deeds
Animals love to be appreciated and rewarded for their good actions and same is true about men. Few words of
appreciation and some good rewards will keep them interested in doing
all the jobs
in the good way. Compliment him if he organizes his wardrobe or irons
his clothes. With the desire to obtain your appreciation, your boyfriend
will repeat his good actions.
- Threaten for His Bad Habits
Animals sometimes need to be threatened and punished. Don’t mind acting the same way with your boyfriend
if he behaves or acts badly. The best way is to deprive him from the
intimate moments and lovemaking sessions. Another good idea would be to
do something that he hates. He will remember this type of punishment
before repeating
the bad behavior again.
- Recognize His Strengths and Weaknesses
Remember that every man has his own strengths and weaknesses. You
really need to identify them and act accordingly. It is obvious that
animals are trained according to their capabilities and inabilities.
While training a man, you don’t need to push him beyond his level of
acceptance.
Not every man has the ability to act romantically. However, every man
can be taught to be romantic by setting examples. For instance, you may
arrange for a candlelight dinner for your boyfriend to let him know
about your desires and expectations. He will definitely like to imitate
the actions.
Finally,
you must train yourself which in turn will help you train your boyfriend.
Stay away from the typical female traits like nagging and mothering.
Don’t shout on him and never go beyond the limit of domination. Your
body language while sorting out an issue should make him realize that
you are trying to be cooperative. Another good idea is to ignore some of
his bad behaviors. After all, he should preserve some of the
characteristic masculine traits.
It is important to realize that you want him to be trained for the
betterment of the relationship and not to make him compliant with your
ego. Your boyfriend will approve of the training techniques, provided you act as a good trainer.
