Ada Okeke shared her true life story online..
My people, I need your advice... I am the one involved!
My cousin (male) came home last Christmas looking for a wife, I told him
about my girlfriend and we agreed to invite her over so that he can see
her.... At last he liked her, collected her phone number from me,
though I told her before doing that... But here is the deal between me
and him, he made it clear to me never to disclose what he does for a
living to her now, but rather I should tell her he is a security man
living in Mushin... ( note: he is a rich business man but he is afraid
to disclose his identity now, because according to him, he is looking
for a lady that will love him for whom he is and not for what he is)...
They met, he told her the same thing, .. After everything she came to me to know whether it's
true, I told her yes... But she should give him a chance, and try to know him very well, ... ..
My girlfriend told me she is not interested, not ready for marriage yet,
I tried all my best to convince her but to no avail, I let go!
Later he found another lady, paid her bride price last February, they are planning for their traditional marriage soon..
Now, I don't know how my girlfriend ran into him and discovered he is a
rich business guy.. She called me yesterday afternoon and gave me the
insult of my life.. Her reason is that I shouldn't have lied to her in
the first place, knowing fully well we are friends.. . that a friend is
not supposed to lie to a friend... Her sisters called me and told me the
same thing.. .. But when I tried to explain things, they hung the phone
on me..
I am planning to go over to their place today to explain things to her
sisters and apologise too, but my own sisters are still with the opinion
that I did nothing wrong.. What do you think? Did I do the right or the
wrong thing?
